That's a tough one. It's going to sound like a cop-out, but it would totally depend on the couple (triangle?) involved and the circumstances of the sighting.

 

That's a tough one. But oddly, I have alot of male friends and occasionally I'll run into one at the park or such. Hugs are usually given and we usually talk for a bit. I'm sure my friends wonder who the hell they are, but no one's ever mentioned anything to Husband. And usually it's me or one of the girls who tells Husband we ran into xxx today.

I guess it depends on the situation. I'm sure it would be different if there were more contact, it the setting were different or one of us was "supposed" to be in another state.

I guess it really depends on the situation though.

 

I would tell you. I wouldn't say it in a way that implied anything, but I'd be like "Oh, I saw the Big Giraffe the other day." and let you take it as you would.

I would want to be told. If my husband had lied to me about it, then I would definitely want to know. If he told me, then no big deal.

 

I would want to be told, and I would probably mention it casually. In most cases, I think, it's more something that the spouse already knows and is an innocent situation.

 

First, I would say hello to the husband in question and gauge their reaction...but I'd still tell you :) I'd want to know if the tables were turned.

 

I'd also try to say so in a very casual way.