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Sunday, July 27, 2008

Packing

When I had only one child, my diaper bag was larger than the bookbag I used when carrying 4 college science text books, associated lab materials, and a laptop everywhere with me. I thought I would need a suitcase on wheels once I had a second child. Yet I read somewhere that with each child, your diaper bag gets smaller. I have been very surprised to find this to be true. In fact based on the reduction of diaper bag size from my first child to my second, I would be down to a Ziplock snack size bag for my fourth child. (Don't worry, Big Giraffe. I don't plan on confirming this.)

With my older son I always had "spare" everything. Sadly with my second I've found myself asking other moms for spares a few times. I've noticed that the parents who need a diaper from another parent (because let's face it you can't borrow a diaper unless the giver is deranged because why else would they want it back after it is used?) either have newborns and are still trying to get the whole diaper bag thing under control or they have more than one child. Personally, I've begun counting down the days until YS is done with diapers. Seeing as he just turned two, taking my socks off so I can count on both hands and feet doesn't get me to a high enough number.

The boys and I are heading to the Catskills for the week. Hence, I haven't been commenting on blogs as much and am entrusting Blogger to publish this scheduled post. I think back to what it was like when I traveled first of all by myself. Pause for appreciation. Then I think back to what it was like when I packed for one: enough items to go around the world and back twice. I feel myself breaking out in a light layer of sweat just thinking about it. In all honesty I think it is harder with just one because there is no model driving an only child to move to the next level. A second child sees his brother sitting in a regular chair to eat, sleeping in a regular bed and using other every day tools of living. If he can get by doing for a week, you don't need to pack a booster chair or a Pack and Play. Despite, paring the gear down as part of this minimalist approach towards packing, I'm still left with an enormous pile of "stuff". I'm thinking about being generous and giving each person a regular size Ziplock baggie instead of a snack size and telling them to cram in as many pairs of underwear as they can. That could be it for our luggage. Yeah, not a good idea, but then again, Ziplock baggies hardly take up any space...

A. Elliot's Lesson Learned: There can be an inverse relationship between the number of children and the amount of gear.

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posted by Alex Elliot @ 6:52 PM   9 comments
9 Comments:
  • At 7/27/2008 8:52 PM, Blogger Mayberry said…

    So true. With kid #2, I just throw a diaper and a pack of wipes in my purse and that's it. Half the time I don't even remember to do that, or I remember, but decide to take my chances and leave them out anyway.

     
  • At 7/27/2008 9:05 PM, Blogger Heather said…

    You know, the bag isn't any smaller with D (#3) but the problem is remembering to bring the diaper bag. I forget all the time.

     
  • At 7/27/2008 10:31 PM, Blogger Jkhb said…

    Use a space bag and suck out all the air they will lay really thin and all fit in one bag. I notice with kid 2 that my purse got bigger and left the diaper bag in the car. Sippy cup, wipes, and one diaper fit in my now bigger purse.

     
  • At 7/28/2008 5:26 PM, Blogger painted maypole said…

    my husband can never seem to figure out why it takes me so long to pack. Um... that would be because all HE packs is the clothes and toiletries for himself. I have to do it for me, the child, plus all the extra stuff like cameras and sunscreen and whatnot that we ALL use.

     
  • At 7/28/2008 10:43 PM, Blogger Kami said…

    This is so true! Now that we are done diapers I can actually, gasp, carry a purse instead of a diaper bag that Winnie the Pooh puked all over ;-)

     
  • At 7/29/2008 3:14 PM, Blogger Tracey said…

    I have a pair of princess undies in my purse and a change of pants in the van. And I'm done! I DO carry a bag around a lot in the summer. Basically, sunscreen, bug spray, camera, etc. It also becomes my pool bag and beach bag, so the towels get rolled up and put into it. But that's about it. I actually USE my purse again!!!

     
  • At 7/30/2008 1:55 PM, Blogger Tracee said…

    I carry a big ergonomically correct purse with lots of pockets and throw a binki and diaper in there. I'm the mom who bums wipes from mothers who still carry diaper bags. :)

     
  • At 7/30/2008 2:03 PM, Blogger skiplovey said…

    I am so looking forward to when I can retire the diaper bag. Every time I try to downgrade to something smaller, an incident occurs that reminds me I really do need the thing.

    It's music to my ears to hear the new math of more children = less stuff. I can barely fathom it with one, makes two seem a little more doable.

     
  • At 7/30/2008 4:27 PM, Blogger Goofball said…

    I always pack sooo much stuff. My purse is big and heavy full with pens, medication (in case I do get a headache, allergy, whatever), pads, cords, all my make-up, letters,post-its, .......). I do carry to work another backpack with a rainjacket and embrella, some apples, a book to read (for traffic jams), etc etc.... apart from my backpack with my workcomputer and workstuff


    gosh...don't make me think of what I'll carry around the day I have a child!

     
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