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Friday, April 18, 2008

Fine Motor Skills Finds

Thanks for all your comments and suggestions! I have found out some interesting things about fine motor skills in the past day.

First of all, I decided of course that I'm going to do the suggested activities on the worksheet from my older son's (OS) teacher. Since my younger son (YS) wants to do everything that OS does, he'll also be participating. However, since YS has always had remarkable fine motor skills, this extra work will probably give him superhero skills where at the tender age of 21 months, he'll be able unlock the deadbolt go outside and hotwire my car.

I talked to a friend of mine who was a kindergarten teacher for many years and she told me something very interesting. She said contrary to what people might think, many times the best way to work on fine motor skills is to work on the upper arm strength. Of course I should have OS do the activities for fine motor skills, but I should alternate them with upper arm strength skills; one day for fine motor skills and one day for doing things like throwing a ball.

The reason behind this is that if the upper arms aren't strong enough, it affects the way the entire arm functions. It doesn't go backwards though so working on fine motor skills does not increase arm strength. Too bad about that or I could trade my weight lifting for typing on my computer!

One of the questions she asked me is if OS crawled using his arms. Not surprisingly he didn't. He was a "butt hopper". I don't know how to explain because I've never seen another kid do it nor had his pediatrician, but it was like he frog hopped on his bottom. He would actually get clearance. My friend said that he may have never fully developed his arm strength.

Then she told me the big question. Get ready because here it is: can your child do the monkey bars? Yes, you did read that right. There is a correlation between kids doing monkey bars and penmanship. The better the kids are at the monkey bars, the better the penmanship. The Big Giraffe looked stunned by this realization because he really struggled with monkey bars as a kid and he still struggles with his penmanship now. It all has to do with arm strength. Needless to say, OS cannot hold on for more than a second or two much less attempt to move to the next bar.

We actually had already been discussing enrolling OS in gymnastics. He's currently in swimming and I didn't want to do too much. However, school is over next month so I think two activities for the summer would be really fun for him. Actually for all my initial issues with art class, I soon began swim team and did gymnastics and I would go so far as to say the fine motor skills are one of my strengths now. In the meantime, we will be doing fun and exciting things like picking up pasta and dried beans with tongs and working on monkey bars at the park. I have a feeling the Big Giraffe will be right behind OS in line for the monkey bars.

I talked to OS's teacher this morning and she said that OS's struggle is age appropriate. Phew! Other kids in the class also got the note.

A. Elliot's Lesson Learned: Got bad penmanship? Go for a swing or two across the monkey bars.

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posted by Alex Elliot @ 8:46 AM   5 comments
5 Comments:
  • At 4/18/2008 10:54 AM, Blogger Goofball said…

    what are Monkey Bars????????

     
  • At 4/18/2008 11:40 AM, Blogger Whirlwind said…

    I'm surprised with the monkey bars! most kids in my daughter's first grade class are just starting to be able to do the monkey bars! And I never could, but have fairly decent hand writting. My oldest cannot move from bar to bar, but she can hang forever. We got them a jungle gym with bars so they'll probably get plenty of practice this summer!

    My best friends daughter was a butt hopper! It was very weird and I never saw anyone else do it.

     
  • At 4/18/2008 11:57 AM, Blogger Heather said…

    Hmmm. That's really interesting stuff.

    My daughter was an Army crawler. She'd pull herself along with just her arms. It was quite a feat. I think she transitioned to hands and knees for a week or two before she just stood up and walked.

    My son looked a little like a frog.

    I think it's actually really cool to see the different methods babies come up with to get moving.

    I'll have to ask my hubs if he was good at Monkey bars because his handwriting is atrocious.

     
  • At 4/18/2008 2:36 PM, Blogger Suzanne said…

    Actually, I have excellent, beautiful, flowing penmanship but I have never, ever been able to go across the monkeybars. (Goofball, mokeybars are a tall play structure in which kids swing with their arms from one rung to the next to get across.) My upper arm strength is basically non-existent. I can do calligraphy, though, so I guess there is an exception to every rule.

    On a semi-related note, it always cracks me up when people tell me that I have beautiful handwriting. Is that not a bizarre compliment?

     
  • At 4/18/2008 4:11 PM, Blogger Alex Elliot said…

    It is just a correlation. It has to do with upper arm strength so it's how long you can hold yourself not necessarily how far you can go across. However, I think her point is that most kids would probably not just hang there if they could go on to the next bar. I'm sure it's largely dependent on how often you go on the monkey bars therefore someone who's at the park every day and struggles with the monkey bars vs. someone who's at the park every day and can go across.

    Whirlwind, I was surprised by that to but I do have to say I've also been surprised by the number of kids OS's age who can do one or two bars.

     
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