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Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Eyedrops and Cat Carriers

There were quite a few times in the 4.5 years since my older son (OS) was born, that I thought that I had hit the absolute worst part of parenting- sleepless nights, temper tantrums, the 4 year old attitude. Maybe that's a tad bit of an exaggeration; playing in the toilet was by far the worst. Then last week I thought I had found something even worse that "potty play" - administering eyedrops.

Giving my older son (OS) eye drops was similar to putting the cats in their carriers.





Putting Cats in their CarriersAdministering Eye Drops to OS
  1. Perform a "cat scan" to find the cat(s). It works best if they are sleeping.

  2. Close any doors to the room.

  3. With the carrier in my hand, creep up on them in a James Bond-like fashion and then pounce.

  4. Some hissing and scratching ensues.

  5. While trying to avoid being bitten, wrestle the cat into the carrier.

  6. Feel exhausted while receiving dirty looks, a hiss, and a look of betrayal.
  1. Scan for OS. It works best if he is sleeping.

  2. Close any doors to the room.

  3. With the eye dropper in my hand, creep up on him in a James Bond-like fashion and then pounce.

  4. Much hissing and scratching ensues.

  5. While trying to avoid being bitten, wrestle OS into a position where I can pry his eyes open and administer the drops.

  6. Feel exhausted while receiving dirty looks, a hiss, and a look of betrayal.


Neither cats nor boy were interested in hearing that I really didn't want to do this. Whenever the Big Giraffe is around, it at least goes a little easier.

During the follow-up visit to check on the progress of OS's alleged pink eye, I happened to tell the nurse practitioner how traumatic I found administering eye drops. She shared a fantastic tip that works for children and even for adults. Have your child close his eyes and tilt his head back. Put two drops in the corner of each eye. When the child opens his eyes the drops will fall right in without the trauma of seeing something aimed right at his eye and without requiring a wrestling match. You can do the same thing for yourself. If your child is really young, wait until right before he wakes up in the morning or from nap time and apply the drops in the corner. For the night time dosing, you're on your own.

I cannot emphasize enough how well this little trick worked with OS. He became far more comfortable with the process. Eye drops ceased to be a huge trauma, leaving me with a happier child and with more energy to deal with other traumas such as keeping OS calm when he wants to sit in supplant my younger son (YS) from sitting in the stroller. Unfortunately, I have not found an equivalent tip for putting my cats in the carrier without hissing, scratching, biting and whining. Hmmm...maybe not the last one.

Nurse Practitioner's Lesson Learned: Administering eye drops to a child or adult with eyes closed averts a lot of discomfort, wrestling matches, hissing, scratching, biting, and whining.

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posted by Alex Elliot @ 4:45 PM   11 comments
11 Comments:
  • At 4/01/2008 6:21 PM, OpenID cablegirl said…

    Great advice!

    .... but couldn't they have told you that before you suffered the scratches and bites? lol

     
  • At 4/01/2008 6:31 PM, Blogger Heather said…

    Good to know. And if you hear of a good one for the cat too, let me know.

     
  • At 4/01/2008 6:54 PM, Blogger Kami said…

    I can so relate to this. Jack needed drops every 2 hours after his surgery. That's right, every 2 hours.

    I don't know if it will help you to know that it gets much, much easier as they get older. The kids mind you, the cats probably not so much.

    :-)

     
  • At 4/01/2008 7:02 PM, Blogger Whirlwind said…

    I wish I had known you were having problems with the drops - I could have helped you out.

     
  • At 4/01/2008 9:17 PM, Blogger Mayberry said…

    I had a similar issue with ear drops when my son was having a lot of infections. I finally figured out I could do one ear while he was nursing. Then I would wait until he was asleep to do the other ear. Which only worked if he happened to fall asleep with the proper ear facing up.

     
  • At 4/01/2008 10:36 PM, Blogger Suzanne said…

    Ha ha ha. The chart you drew up is priceless.

    And thanks for sharing the advice. Very good to know!

     
  • At 4/02/2008 3:03 AM, Blogger Lady M said…

    Clever eyedrop advice - thanks!

     
  • At 4/02/2008 9:35 AM, Blogger Lizzy in the Burbs said…

    Wow! That's great advise, wish I'd known that when my kids were younger and I went through the wrestling (kicking, scratching, crying)! Actually, I may still employee this technique the next time my husband needs eye drops for any reason, he is actually a bigger baby about it than my kids! He scratched his cornea once and had to put in antibiotic drops, I literally had to sit on his arms and put them in for him, wussy! :o)

    Lizzy

     
  • At 4/02/2008 9:37 AM, Blogger Lizzy in the Burbs said…

    Um,..I meant to say "employ", not "employee", that makes absolutely no sense at all! LOL

    Lizzy

     
  • At 4/06/2008 3:56 AM, Blogger Christina said…

    Real life cat carrier tip: when you put your cat into the carrier, put him/her in tail-end first. It's not easy - but it's easier. (The cat can't see it's going into a confined space until it's too late -- it's a tip I got from my vet, and it's worked like a charm for me.)

    Great eyedrop advice!

     
  • At 4/08/2008 5:41 AM, Blogger Goofball said…

    great chart :p.

    can you trick the cat with food in its carrier?

     
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