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Thursday, November 22, 2007

Spoken and Unspoken Thanksgiving Gratitude

This Thanksgiving, I'm truly grateful for my family, friends, health, and the fact we have a warm house to live in and plenty to eat. I thought I would share some other spoken and unspoken thoughts of gratitude that were expressed today. A couple of them were shared when we did warm fuzzies at the dinner table where everyone had to say one nice thing about everyone else and one nice thing about themselves. I realize that you might be rolling your eyes, particularly if you are the Big Giraffe, but hey if we spent all this time preparing this meal, I wanted our boys to at least be aware that this holiday is about gratitude. Picture a stern look going along with that last sentence. Our younger son (YS) and our pets were exempt. The Big Giraffe was not even though he tried.

  1. I am thankful that I was able to do a decent job managing my stress level and did not cry at any point today. This is a huge improvement over past holidays. This was my warm fuzzy.
  2. The Big Giraffe stated that he was thankful that he did not react to my "micromanagement" and did not storm out to spend Thanksgiving at Walgreens*. That was his warm fuzzy. I took issue with this: there are no cold fuzzies, indirect or direct, allowed during warm fuzzy time.
  3. The Big Giraffe should be grateful that I didn't encounter any divorce lawyers looking for new clients today.
  4. Our dog appeared grateful that I somehow missed removing the neck from the turkey. I could not believe the amount of extra stuffing, and yes I did make my own, that wouldn't fit in the turkey. The dog got the leftovers
  5. I am grateful that we didn't have the fire department visiting us. Despite the fact the the turkey cooked with the neck in it, it came out great. It was nice and moist. (Even the Big Giraffe agreed, in between big bites.)
  6. I am grateful that somehow the Pretty n Pink soundtrack which just happened to be on sale at Borders made its way into my shopping cart last night. I have no idea how that happened. It made for some great music while we were preparing food.
  7. Our Older son (OS) stated that he was grateful that we turned the music off when we had dinner. No I'm not making that up. It wasn't technically part of his warm fuzzy, but as we sat down he said "Thank you Mommy for turning off the music."
  8. OS should be grateful that we, by which I mean "I", did not comment on the fact that all he ate at our Thanksgiving feast was a corn muffin. I made turkey, stuffing and cheddar mashed potatoes. The Big Giraffe made corn muffins and a broccoli casserole.
  9. YS appeared grateful that no one commented on OS's eating, since it averted an OS holiday meltdown, which likely would have been followed by poking his brother.
  10. YS appeared grateful for the food that was served. He ate everything, including the canned cranberries.
  11. I am grateful that the Big Giraffe brought home good wine last night for today as well as a very nice center piece which he surprised me with. Technically, he told me the centerpiece was for the table, but the bouquet of flowers was for me.
  12. We are grateful that our kids actually took a nap this afternoon so we could have some alone time...
  13. I am grateful that no one spent Thanksgiving at Walgreens even though I might not have felt that way at certain points during the day.
  14. Our cats appear grateful that everyone else was occupied with the Thanskgiving Day fights festivities and left them completely alone
  15. We were all grateful that we were invited to a friend's house for dessert. We had a really great time.
  16. We are both grateful that we have an honest marriage: we both admitted that we hate watching the Thanksgiving Day parade on TV. We both thought that it was important to the other one. The Big Giraffe only likes it in person, and I could do without it altogether.
  17. I am grateful that OS's teachers send home little projects containing the feelings expressed by the children in the class. It's a great way to see what's going on in OS's mind. On Monday, the teachers sent home a list of class gratitudes. "Suzy" was grateful for her parents, "Johnny" was grateful for his parents and his brother, "Sam" was grateful for meat, and OS was grateful for turkey bologna and grapes
  18. OS stated that he was grateful that Christmas was today. That was his warm fuzzy.

*I may just possibly have forgotten to pick up enough frozen broccoli for a casserole leading into a small debate about what Thanksgiving was really about: honoring the very first Thanksgiving where the men brought home the meat and the women cooked or a complete reversal of Mothers' Day where women are in charge of everything including both the shopping and the cooking. The words "misogynistic holiday" may have been uttered once or twice. The Big Giraffe went to Walgreens since it was one of the only places open to see if they had any frozen broccoli. He reported back that it was a hopping place, but unfortunately it did not sell frozen vegetables. CVS was also open, also did not have frozen vegetables, but apparently lacked the same energy level among its customers.

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.


A. Elliot's Lesson Learned: There is a lot to be thankful for.

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posted by Alex Elliot @ 6:57 PM   11 comments
11 Comments:
  • At 11/22/2007 8:59 PM, Blogger super des said…

    Happy Thanksgiving!
    Holidays are always stressful, so I'm glad everything worked out for you today.
    :)

     
  • At 11/22/2007 9:47 PM, Blogger Jodi said…

    Happy Thanksgiving!

     
  • At 11/23/2007 9:26 AM, Blogger Tracey said…

    Sounds like a primo holiday.

    My kindergartener was thankful for Pokemon cards. Oh, and MY OS didn't eat anything at the dinner table. In fact, not a single thing (not even the chicken strips I spent an HOUR cooking prior, just for HIM) graced his plate.

    But my 2 yr old ate everything. I figure, if 1 out of 3 kids eat, that's not too shabby...

     
  • At 11/23/2007 10:42 AM, Blogger Kami said…

    That was funny Alex, a nice humourous spin on life :-)

    Happy day after Thanksgiving to you, my American friend!

     
  • At 11/23/2007 10:42 AM, Blogger Heather said…

    That's a lot of thanks!

     
  • At 11/23/2007 12:43 PM, Blogger slouching mom said…

    I loved this glimpse into your Thanksgiving.

    Funny!

    Glad it was a good one.

     
  • At 11/23/2007 3:06 PM, Blogger Nora Bee said…

    What a nice tradition! I may borrow it...

     
  • At 11/23/2007 5:44 PM, Blogger soccer mom in denial said…

    Oh my! Both you and Flower Girl have posts that are making me spit out my wine.

    My favorite from you post? How Pretty in Pink just magically appeared in your cart AND OS' request that you stop playing it.

    Giggle.

     
  • At 11/23/2007 6:44 PM, Blogger Count Mockula said…

    Happy Thanksgiving! By the way, I think the opposite of a warm fuzzy is a cold prickly.

     
  • At 11/23/2007 7:11 PM, Blogger skiplovey said…

    Hilarious! I think it's great to focus on what you have to be thankful for, nice way to remind your kids the day is not just about dinner. Maybe next year you can divvy up the dishes a little more equally between you and the hubby ; )

     
  • At 11/26/2007 12:55 PM, Blogger Suzanne said…

    I am grateful that I will see you tomorrow! If there are any leftovers, I will be glad to eat them.

     
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