A couple weeks ago, my blogging friend Hedda Dabbler, asked me if my younger son (YS) was finding it difficult to transition from formula to table food. She specifically wondered if I was concerned that he was getting enough to eat. I was not concerned for two reasons. First, I had already gone through the stress of watching my older son (OS) transition to solids at what I thought was an extremely leisurely pace. Second, YS actually transitioned to solids quickly and easily.
When OS was first introduced to solid foods, he wasn't that interested in them. He liked his cereal and his baby food fruit and vegetables, but that was about it. No Cheerios, Goldfish crackers, meat, or any food that wasn't pureed. Well, almost no food that wasn't pureed. He actually loved string cheese, and in fact "cheese" was his first word. However, he was very particular in his cheese taste. For example, cheddar cheese made him cry after he took a bite.
Initially (and initially lasted for a long time) I was concerned. Every time he had a pediatrician's appointment I would bring it up. "My son likes formula better than anything except cheese, and there is a limit to how much cheese I will let him eat. What do I do?" The pediatrician kept telling me not to worry about it (which I carefully filed under easier said than done). She said that kids all learn to eat at different rates. When I rationalized that perhaps he was slow to eat solids because he only had two teeth, she burst that bubble by telling me that teeth have nothing to do with it. (Those of you who know my husband, the Big Giraffe, casually can probably imagine this news cutting off his longwinded toothbrushing lecture to the boys listing all of the reasons why teeth are valuable mid-syllable. Those of you who know him well probably realize nothing can cut off that lecture. He simply didn't buy the pediatrician's claim that babies can consume solids without teeth, and I admit that I was skeptical too.)
Right before OS turned a year, he ate non-babyfood chicken for the first time. It was the first non-cheese, non-pureed food he was ever willing to swallow. After that chicken, it was like the barn door had been left open, and his tastebuds were on the loose. In a few short weeks, he was eating exactly what we ate. As importantly, he was eating more solid foods and decreasing his formula intake. (Our pediatrician insisted that OS continue to take in at least 18 ounces of formula a day.) By the time I switched him over to milk at 13 months, he was doing great with table food. Of course, the big giraffe and I were able to count several teeth in OS's mouth at that point, so we felt vindicated.
When it came to YS, however, things went differently. My toothless wonder was able and more than willing to eat pretty much any table food I set in front of him starting at 7 months (leaving the big giraffe and me eating our words). With OS, each food was introduced with great care over several days. It seemed like we were giving him new foods for ages. With YS it seemed to just fly by. I can't even remember when he first started eating what we ate, but he's only 13 months and we've been eating the same meals for a while now. In addition to YS's greater comfort with table food, he wants to do whatever his big brother does, so he was never happy with baby food. We also were far more laidback in introducing foods to YS because neither OS, the big giraffe, any of our extended family, nor I have any food allergies. That said, we are still waiting a while before we let YS try nuts or shellfish.
My biggest advice would be to talk to your pediatrician. That way you can get - Advice specific to your child
- Instructions on how to assess whether your baby is properly chewing and swallowing food
- Up-to-date information on how often and how much the baby should be getting from the bottle or the breast
Feeding babies table food is definitely something that I've found to be easier the second time around (although I know that's not true for everyone.)
A. Elliot's Lesson Learned: Different babies transition to solid food at different speeds, with different levels of enthusiasm, and showing different food preferences.Labels: Breastfeeding, Food (Solid), Formula |
My son gave up baby food before he gave up the bottle, and I took away the bottle the week after his first birthday. He then went on what I like to call the "Cheerio Diet (tm)." He alternated between eating mass quantities of red grapes, Cheerios by the bucket, and yogurt.
And that was it.
At nearly four years old, my son will now eat nearly anything. He even eats asparagus. I don't know why I was so worried!
My daughter was toothless until the week before her birthday, and she was able to gum anything with ease.