Soccer Mom in Denial was interviewed by Gunfighter a few days ago. She offered to interview anyone who was interested. Since I love reading her posts and her witty comments on mine and other people's blogs, I just had to ask her to interview me. I found her blog because I kept seeing her comments on other people's blogs that I read. It turns out she is also a fellow Unitarian Universalist.
1. What thing or place (not person) do you miss in Chicago?
Without a doubt, I miss Lake Michigan. I absolutely love swimming in it. Contrary to the belief of some East coasters (by some East Coasters, I mean the Big Giraffe) there is a difference between one of the Great Lakes and a pond. For example, you cannot see across it. It offers all the benefits of swimming in the ocean without getting all salty and having to worry about sharks and jellyfish. Okay, maybe the waves aren't as good, but still. Since I have listed the place that I most miss, I can also add the thing that I most miss, which are egg rolls from the Far East Chinese restaurant. The outside of their egg rolls are made with peanut butter and have won many taste contests. The place doesn't have much of a decor, but I suppose if you want to enjoy a good view you can get takeout and go to Lake Michigan with it. (Note, I myself have never combined Lake Michigan and Far East Chinese restaurant egg rolls. At least not yet.)
2. Are you comfortable raising your children Unitarian Univeralist?
For the most part yes. My husband and I become UUs in 2002. He's a practicing Jew and I am a former Catholic. We liked that UU welcomes all different faith traditions, supports and encourages people's freedom to make their own decisions about spiritual matters, and is also active in trying to attain social justice. My only concern is that because our church is so laid back I worry about how seriously religious education is taken. I know the director of religious education does a great job at presenting a diverse curriculum, but there aren't any books or homework assignments for the kids. I think in a day and age where political upheaval is so often caused by religious differences, it is really important to understand the different world religions as those religious people view them, and I would never want my children to confuse open-mindedness with lack of passion for what they believe.
3. Who is your favorite Muppet?
I love that muppet who's blue and cranky and says "I'm proud to be an American." This is closely followed by Rizzo the Rat.
4. Describe your typical Wednesday.
Wednesday is my easy day. I have been in a playgroup since my older son (OS) was 3 months old. We started out meeting on Tuesdays, but ever since OS turned 18 months, we've been meeting on Wednesdays. Usually we get up, eat breakfast, get dressed and head out the door to playgroup. Sometimes my mothership...I mean Dunkin Donuts...will call to me and I'll get a coffee on the way. Then it's usually a little chaotic as the moms try to cram in everything that happened in the past week while the kids all run around. We used to do a snack at around 10:30, and then playgroup would end around 11:15 am, but we've moved towards skipping snack and having an embarrassingly early lunch. I like this way much better. Then the kids run around for a bit longer before we head back home. I put the boys down for quiet time at 1 pm. Then I seem to lose gobs and gobs of time doing things like loading the dishwasher or reading people's blogs. Then it's usually a couple hours with the kids, dinner and then the Big Giraffe comes home and does bedtime rituals. On the last Wednesday of every month I have a moms group meeting in the evenings. One Wednesday a month my husband has a standing committee meeting for church (on which evening I usually will do bedtime rituals.) Sometimes I go to the Y. Last week it was book club. A lot of times I just veg out on the couch.
5. Have you always been a swimmer?
Yes, pretty much. I actually lived in Framingham, MA until I was 2.5 and moved to the Midwest. My parents had a pool in their backyard in MA, so during the summer I was in it every day. I started competitive swimming when I was in 3rd grade. I think my favorite swimming time was in high school. It was just so much fun.
6. I find you very, very funny. Do you consider yourself a humorous person?
Thank you! It's a toss up between being humorous and just crazy :) (Okay, Big Giraffe. No one asked if you find me funny, and no one wants to hear you say that you laugh at me all the time!)
Thanks Soccer Mom! If any of you would like me to interview you, just let me know.
Very nice interview. Although I grew up in the same community as you, I have never heard of these egg rolls. perhaps wee shall have to get some while in Chicago for BlogHer...
Also, the Muppet you mention is Sam the Eagle. Husband and I worship the wit and wisdom of the Muppets. I really love Waldorf and Statler. I hate Miss Piggy, though.
What great responses! I had a lot of fun thinking up questions for you. I do have some thoughts about the UU question/response.
My Catholic-raised husband struggles at times that our kids are not getting "enough religion".
There is an explore other faiths section of UU Religious Education in which middle schoolers visit different religious services. Amoung the services I went to in the early 1980's were Jewish Friday evening services (I loved it), Church of Latter-Day Saint Sunday service and lessons (that was not a pleasant experience since the girls had their lessons in, yes, the kitchen while the boys went to a posh library) and a Quaker hour (in which we sat in silence for nearly 50 minutes until a woman got up and told a story about marbles). I know the youth of our church have visited an Islamic center in years past.
I will readily admit that I cannot cite scripture and do not pray to a god. But I do believe in the inherent worth and dignity of all people regardless of their faith, creed or lack there of. That is what I hope for my kids.
mmm... egg rolls at the lake sounds divine! I am fully intrigued by the UU response (yours as well as SMID's comment) We are currently "without" religion; both of us coming from the same very conservative, very limiting (on so many levels) religious background. We are just finding our feet being on our own right now. But I have been pondering this question a lot for the kids religious education sake. While I do not want them to be encumbered with the same guilt and issues I am now trying to shed, I do want for them to have some knowledge about the greater questions and some passion for something as they grow. For all it's baggage, religion has given me a something to hold onto at various times in my life. Since they have family on both sides deeply imbedded in the traditions of the religion, I know they will be exposed to that. But I am also wondering the best way to explore and expose them to more, and like you said without giving them the impression that an open-minded approach means not picking something and feeling passionate about belief. Great power comes from passion. I just don't want them to end up picking the family religion... that will be hard to bear. I could go on forever, but this is a response NOT a post of my own. Thanks for giving me a place to get it off my chest. You have given me loads to think about today.
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For those of us who didn't get an instruction manual with our babies and for whom parenting hasn't always gone as planned. On a more serious note this blog is about supporting a woman's ability to make her own choices about parenting including the choice, for whatever reason, to bottle feed her babies formula.
Very nice interview. Although I grew up in the same community as you, I have never heard of these egg rolls. perhaps wee shall have to get some while in Chicago for BlogHer...
Also, the Muppet you mention is Sam the Eagle. Husband and I worship the wit and wisdom of the Muppets. I really love Waldorf and Statler. I hate Miss Piggy, though.