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Monday, January 01, 2007

Changes

The topic is so limiting and so open at the same time.

In becoming a mother I went through some of the most incredible changes someone my age can go through. At nineteen years old, I was blessed with this tiny little person whose entire existence depended entirely on me. While other girls my age were finishing up there freshmen years of college (which I was doing too) and drinking and partying and clubbing, I was getting up every two hours to feed my precious Little Prince.

My entire outlook had to change. Suddenly my life was not my own. In every decision and plan I made, I had to consider Little Prince. Dinner with the girls required the almost desperate hunt for a trustworthy competent baby sitter. Alone time with Daddy the Boyfriend had to be strategically maneuvered according to Little Princes bed time. Even cleaning the house had to be arranged around the time Little Prince napped and which activities woke him up.

But that wasn’t even the hard part. The hardest, and I know this sounds incrediably vain, but they were the changes to my body. I could handle the 8 feedings a night, and the increasingly sparse nights out with the girls. But at nineteen years old, I went from a size four with glowing skin and perky little breasts to a size 10 with strectch marks and pancake breasts. Where is fairness in that? And don’t give me that life isn’t fair crap… I want my perky boobs. But such is life

And as the new year gets increasingly closer I have to wonder what changes am I in for this year. Little Prince is already growing so fast, He only wants to cuddle and be held when he sleepy. And he so big and moving everywhere and is getting teeth and saying dada and waving bye bye. He’s not even 9 months old and I already miss my tiny little newborn. But it’s hard not to be impressed and amazed by his triumphs.

But no matter what changes arrive, I know I can handle them. I mean hell, the worst has already happened, my breasts look like pancakes, so no worries.

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posted by Alex Elliot @ 8:46 AM   12 comments
12 Comments:
  • At 1/01/2007 9:59 AM, Anonymous K said…

    I agree. The post baby stomach flop and tiny post breastfeeding boobs are almost as painful as labor.

    Almost... :)

     
  • At 1/01/2007 11:22 AM, Blogger Bobita said…

    I hear you! I can't imagine what I would have felt like had I gone through these body changes at age 19!

    But, alas, the pancake boobs seem to be more like a badge of honor at age 36!

    (Wait, that might actually be more sad than funny!)

    Heh.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 12:58 PM, Anonymous Paige said…

    Yes, what she said...only almost.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 2:08 PM, Anonymous dana said…

    I remember the body changes as if it were yesterday. I was never thin to begin with, but now I look like my frumpy mother and I hate it. This momma is chaning her diet this year. It's time to be a hot mom.

    Great post. It's so nice to see what other moms think about change.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 2:26 PM, Blogger KIP said…

    Can someone please invent a non-invasive, inexpensive "re-perking" procedure for the boobs?
    That person would make millions!

    Sounds like you've had quite the year, but wow, it sounds inspiring.
    Enjoy all that 2007 brings to you.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 2:56 PM, Blogger Amy Jo said…

    You're making me nervous ladies, because I'm still breastfeeding. Now I may never stop! I already have the tummy going, I don't know if I can take the boobs, too!

     
  • At 1/01/2007 3:29 PM, Blogger Karianna said…

    "hang" in there. Your body can bounce back. Yes, it takes time. But you can create a new - changed - identity that will be just as beautiful.

    Best of luck in 2007!

     
  • At 1/01/2007 3:45 PM, Blogger Kate said…

    This is a nice post. Nice in a way that at such a young age you are already wise beyond your years, because when I was 19 I was that clubbing and partying girl you speak of and had no idea what sacrifice really meant.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 6:26 PM, Blogger Suzanne said…

    I didn't even have a kid and my breasts looked like saddlebags at the ripe of age of 20. Breast reduction surgery. It saved my shoulders and back.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 8:54 PM, Blogger Heather said…

    Yeah, no one really tells you about all those "fun" changes that your body will make.

    At least it's worth it.

     
  • At 1/01/2007 11:00 PM, Anonymous Jenn said…

    oooh...I vaguely remember perky boobs. and I only pay attention to my stomach when I'm lying flat on my back. :P

     
  • At 1/01/2007 11:25 PM, Blogger Alex Elliot said…

    It's funny because I'm much healthier now than before I got pregnant, but I'm much heavier. I seem to be good at maintaining the weight, but not so great at losing it. I with Suzanne on the breast reduction. I had it at 19 because of my giant old lady boobs.

     
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